Poem 703 – Childish Things?

Eight men, eight grown-up men at that, all sat
Around a table playing games. It seems,
A little childish perhaps, a desperate clutching
Onto passing days, of memories
Of living wild and young and fearlessly.
But here we’re free to put aside, for now,
Responsibility and simply be
Ourselves. To set aside the expectations
Put upon us by ourselves and others.
Right now the world reduces to the choices
Made, the turns we take, and all that matters
Is the fun we find, investing in each other.
We end rejuvenated, ready as
the table and the world expand again.

Today I travelled back from a weekend playing boardgames with friends. A wonderful time, thanks all!
(17.11.25)

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Poem 614 – Pilgrims in Lycra

A modern pilgrimage
by pedal not by foot.
Progressing on the path
we paused to pray in churches
long permeated with worship.
Our penance? Uphill slopes,
battling punishing winds.
But piousness brings reward:
the company of friends
along with cake and coffee.

Today I enjoyed a ride along a section of the London Walsingham Camino, catching churches between Waltham Abbey and Ware/Hertford.
(20.08.25)

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Poem 482 – Pètanque

SMACK! Smashed gravel flies.
A shower of shards are scattered
as the boule descends.

Crashing into its target,
it sends it scything across
the crunching gravel court.

With pumping fists, the players
cheer, opponents groan,
their pole position lost.

One final fling, all hope
is pinned on nicking the nearest
boule placed by the jack.

A pause for silent prayer
before the bending player
looses their last chance…

Today we spent a lovely sunny time with friends, culminating in a tight hand of petanque. We lost, joy won.
(11.04.25)

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Photo by Caroline Hernandez on Unsplash

Poem 428 – Two Friends

The simple joy
Of an evening spent
With two old friends

Two friends whose lives
Have intertwined
And accompanied ours

Two friends who shared
Our wedding day
(But sadly not with us)

Two friends whose children
Have become
The friends of ours

Two friends who’ve walked
Our joys and trials
As we’ve walked theirs

Two friends with whom
We can relax
And simply be

Seemed an obvious follow-up to the last couple of days’ poems. That’s not us in the photo though, surprisingly I’ve virtually no photos of just the four (or eight) of us. Thanks J&B!
(16.02.25)

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Photo by Devin Avery on Unsplash

Poem 188 – Exposed

I shed my face,
the one I placed
upon my face
this morning. Here,
with you,
                    it lies
discarded it’s
unnecessary.

The truth beneath
revealed, my veins,
and flesh displayed
to you. No need
to pause,
                    exposed,
stripped back, you stand
naked before me.

Watching the ease shared between Paul Whitehouse and Bob Mortimer in ‘Gone Fishing’ I found myself reflecting on the nature of friendship.
(20.05.23)

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Photo by Harli Marten on Unsplash

Poem 108 – Reunion

Bathing South Down hills
The sun accompanies us
Smiling while we reminisce
A stroll across the years

Faithful orb that shines on us
Before at night retreating
Only to return again
Its loyalty unwavering

Nothing is required of us
No need for filling gaps
Simply being is enough
Silence is not amiss

Finally descending with
Its gentle amber kiss
Waves farewell as we depart
This friendship that persists

Managed to snatch a couple of days walking with old friends from Imperial this weekend. The intervening decades meant nothing.
(21.03.22)

© Ben Quant 2022